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Elizabeth “Betsy” Hershman
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Elizabeth "Betsy" Hershman

Practice Area
Family Law
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Attorney bio

Elizabeth (“Betsy”) Hershman is an accomplished family law attorney known for combining sharp litigation skills with a thoughtful, compassionate approach to dispute resolution. A seasoned litigator and trained Collaborative lawyer, Betsy represents clients across the full spectrum of family law matters, including complex divorces, domestic partnerships, Committed Intimate Relationships, parenting and child support disputes, and LGBTQ+–specific family law issues. She is widely respected for her ability to navigate emotionally complex cases with clarity, balance, and strategic focus.

Betsy’s clients include high-net-worth individuals, business owners, entrepreneurs, executives, and other professionals and their partners who seek to resolve their private family law matters efficiently, respectfully, and with minimal disruption to their lives.

Her excellence in practice has been consistently recognized. Betsy has long been named a Washington Super Lawyers® honoree and has been recognized by Best Lawyers® for Family Law since 2022.

Outside the office, Betsy enjoys recreational dance, community building, and exploring the natural beauty of the Pacific Northwest—interests that mirror the balance, creativity, and connection she brings to her professional life.

Education
Seattle University School of Law
Juris Doctor, magna cum laude
Indiana University
B.A., Sociology
Recognition & Activities
  • Recognized by The Best Lawyers in America® in the practice area of Family Law
  • Named a “Super Lawyer” and “Top 50 Women” and “Top 100 Attorneys” by Washington Super Lawyers magazine
  • Named a “Rising Star” by Washington Super Lawyers magazine
  • Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section
  • Member, International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
  • Member, King County Bar Association, Family Law Section
  • Member, QLAW Association
  • Member, King County Collaborative Law
Publications & Presentations
  • Marriage, LexisNexis Practice Guide Washington Family Law, October 2016
  • Life in a Post-DOMA World, NWLawyer, October 2013, with Caleb Bonm of Skellenger Bender, P.S.
  • The Law of Same-Sex Marriage, presented at Washington State Bar Association CLE, April 2013, with Justin Sedell (Lasher)
  • Breaking-Up is Harder if You’re Not Married: Litigating Property Division Issues for Unmarried Couples, presented at Washington State Bar Association CLE, April 2012, with Justin Sedell (Lasher)
  • The Proposition 8 Battle and What It Means for Washington, King County Bar Association Bulletin, September 2010
  • Parenting Plans and the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act, presented at King County Bar Association CLE, April 2010
  • Washington Domestic Partnership Expansion Bill, Overview for Family Law Practitioners, presented at King County Bar Association CLE, February 2010
Betsey (Elizabeth) Hershman-Greven was an amazing attorney to have on my side during an extremely emotionally trying and difficult time. She was professional as well as compassionate in our time of need, she was a fierce advocate for both me and my kids and worked to help us navigate a challenging situation successfully. I am extremely grateful for her sense of humor and intelligence that helped us emerge successfully!
—Kari - via Google Reviews (Skellenger Bender)
The work ethic, professionalism, and attention to detail was exceptional and Exceeded my expectations substantially. Going through a divorce is a traumatic experience, but Betsy and Peder were with me all the way! They listened to my goals and values, while showing courage and compassion (for both sides) as we resolve issues and allowed us to move on with our lives. I’m eternally grateful and feel well served by every member of my team. I will be a life long client (hopefully not for divorce)!
—Ron - via Google Reviews (Skellenger Bender)
Elizabeth Hershman-Greven (Betsy) and her team took very good care of me during a really contentious divorce from a woman I’d been with for 25 years! They did a lot of hand holding to get me thru the arduous amount of paperwork and were so kind, caring and gentle with me. After being told from another attorney that I’d get nothing due to “legally” being married for only 1 1/2 years, I knew this wasn’t right so I sought a new attorney. Betsy was just what I needed to get a fair settlement from my divorce. I highly recommend her. Betsy and her staff were worth every penny! So professional yet so personable. I highly recommend Betsy as the best divorce attorney in Seattle for the LGBT community!
—Cheryl via Google Reviews (Skellenger Bender)
I came to LASHER in the middle of one of the hardest seasons of my life. I was already deep into a high-conflict custody battle—accusations flying, constant tension in co-parenting, and an looming out-of-state move by the other parent that put everything on the line. It was the kind of situation that wears you down mentally, emotionally, and financially. At that point, I made the difficult decision to change attorneys mid-case… and it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. From the moment Betsy Hershman stepped in, everything changed. Betsy didn’t just represent me—she led me. When things felt chaotic and uncertain, she brought clarity, direction, and a steady hand. She has a rare ability to see the full picture, cut through the noise, and guide you forward with both strength and compassion. There were moments where I genuinely didn’t know how things would turn out, but she never lost sight of what mattered most, my daughter —and she made sure I didn’t either. Lisa Sharpe and Faye Washburn were equally incredible. The entire team operated with professionalism, responsiveness, and a level of care that made me feel supported every step of the way. Because of LASHER, I didn’t just “get through” my case—I came out the other side with the most important parts of my life intact, and a meaningful, workable parenting plan that gives me stability and hope moving forward. If you’re reading this and you’re in the middle of something overwhelming like I was—wondering if you made the right choices or if things are going to fall apart—this is the team you want in your corner. They don’t just show up. They lead you through the wilderness. I’m incredibly grateful for Betsy, Lisa, and Faye. Truly exceptional people doing exceptional work.
—Bryce E. via Google Reviews